I remember a neighbor who ran cursing after a white boy, throwing stones after him for trying to date his 14 year old daughter.

And there are plenty of people over here who are not allowing their daughters to marry outside their own culture and “race". Many girls are not allowed to date at all, and there are plenty of family clans that white, Christian or atheist boys knows to stay away from.

Racism exist, as I said. I am not accusing him of lying. But it’s human nature to expect everyone to see you through the same filter after a bad experience, when dads will be dads.

Just like you do, when you generalise Scandinavians as people sleeping around and drinking in their teens, just because it exists.

Teenage girls who are told by one guy that they have ugly teeth, will also easily believe that every other guy who gives them a cryptic look, is thinking that they have ugly teeth. It’s a very human reaction.

When my black friend from Uganda and I have been out for walks, I have also had black, African women shout after us in the street: “what the hell are you doing with this white woman!?” A white guy I know told me the same thing. That when he was walking on the street in Scandinavia with his black guy- friend from Eritrea, other guys from that country would shout curse words after them for walking together. The world is a harsh place, and people of one colour or culture do not have monopoly on racism or clan-mentality. It’s a very common thing.

I wish the guy well, and hopes he finds a nice girl and stays faithful to her.