People give up too easily. Try spending some time apart if you need it. Try communicating in depth through writing or audio files. That way, you both get to finish your thoughts and points, and ponder upon the other persons perspective before you respond. Use your intelligence and rationality, and make the dialogue less agitated and emotional. Make sure you respond to everything said, not just what you feel like responding to. What is less important to you might be very important to your partner. And think of your kids if you have any! Think of financial issues as well. And pray for God’s will in your lives..