Very true and important things to reflect over. I’ve often thought about how I would cope if someone I truly love passed away suddenly? It’s something to think about, because it mentally helps you to prepare for the unexpected.

Of course I mostly think of aspirations and dreams I have for my loved ones. How I want to help them be happy, prosper and find their own path to live fulfilling lives.

But I also need to prepare for bad things. If I ever broke down in grief and self pity over a devastating loss, then wouldn’t that just be a terrible burdon on everyone else that I love? They deserve that I would stay strong and continue to embrace life, not grief. If not just for me, then for them.

I think of this Bible verse: I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

On the other hand, the unexpected can also be something wonderful and better than you ever dreamt of. There’s also balance. Although the road to perfection seems to be through suffering. It’s very humbling to think about.

Thank you for sharing!